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  • What Happens after delivery

    What Happens after delivery

    We hope you’ve followed our checklist to pack your hospital bag, and have read our Article on Dad’s Role in Labour and Delivery. In continuation of the Labour and Delivery series, this Article is an exhaustive Dad Guide on What Happens After Delivery, the things to expect, and your role as the father to a newborn!

    Newborn Care After Delivery – Health Checkup

    Apgar Score

    Regardless of whether your partner has had a vaginal delivery or a Cesarean section, the moment your baby arrives, the medical personnel are likely to take him/her for a series of tests by a paediatrician such as checking their weight, monitoring urination, and calculating the Apgar score. It’s like a report card for newborns, assessing their well-being in the first few minutes of life.

    Newborn being weighed after birth

    What Does It Measure?

    • Appearance (Skin Color): The Apgar score checks your baby’s skin color. Pink is the ideal hue.
    • Pulse (Heart Rate): It monitors your baby’s heart rate. A strong, regular beat is excellent.
    • Grimace Response (Reflexes): Your baby’s response to stimulation will be checked. The stimulation may be a gentle pinch.
    • Activity (Muscle Tone): The score evaluates muscle tone, looking for strong, active movement.
    • Respiration (Breathing): It checks how well your baby is breathing. Strong, crying breaths are great.

    The Apgar score happens at one minute and again at five minutes after birth, allowing the medical team to ensure your baby is transitioning well into the world.

    Your Role

    • Let the medical personnel do their job, and congratulate the new mom on the amazing job she’s done!
    • Assist with any immediate postpartum care.
    • Handover the clothing or sheet you want the medical personnel to drape your newborn as they bring your baby to you.
    • Be ready to receive the baby once everything checks out alright.

    General Tests and Assessments

    In the hours and days following childbirth, your baby will undergo several tests and assessments to ensure their health and well-being.

    Newborn health check

    What to expect

    • Weight and Length: Your baby’s weight, length, and head circumference are measured to monitor growth.
    • Jaundice Assessment: A quick check for jaundice, a common condition caused by elevated bilirubin levels.

    Hearing Tests for Your Baby

    Newborn hearing tests are typically conducted before you leave the hospital. These quick and non-invasive tests aim to ensure your baby’s hearing is on track.

    How It Works

    • A soft probe is placed in your baby’s ear to measure their response to sound.
    • If a potential hearing issue is detected, further evaluation will be recommended.

    Early detection and intervention, if needed, are essential for supporting your baby’s language and communication development.

    Newborn hearing test

    Usual Health Complications

    In the coming section, we’ll look at a couple of health complications that may happen with your newborn – this is based on what my partner and I went through with our firstborn and is not meant to be exhaustive.

    Respiratory Distress

    It is possible your baby may have some respiratory distress upon delivery, for various reasons. This is something we faced, and I’m penning down our experiences here.

    Newborn being given oxygen

    What to expect

    • In the event your baby is in respiratory distress, and there are other complications such as incomplete lung growth due to early labour, your baby will be taken by the medical personnel to the NICU where they will administer oxygen using a cannula.
    • In the event this does not suffice, the doctors will put your baby on a CPAP machine, which provides respiratory support to the baby. The duration of the CPAP will depend on various factors and it’s best discussed with your doctors. However, the general duration of a baby being on a CPAP machine is a few hours to 1-2 days. Our baby was on the CPAP for a couple of hours, and was then taken off it once their breathing stabilised.
    • In the event the respiratory distress continues despite the baby being on CPAP, a ventilator may be required.

    Jaundice

    Jaundice in newborns is fairly common and does not generally require attention at the hospital, unless there are aggravating circumstances such as low birth weight, or the baby having Intra Uterine Growth Restriction (IUGR) / Fatal Growth Restriction (FGR), or a high bilirubin count. Newborn jaundice generally resolves itself in a couple of weeks.

    What to expect

    • Where the baby’s bilirubin count is high, the baby will be generally be subject to Phototherapy, which is a special light that helps the baby’s liver break down the bilirubin.
    • Phototherapy involves placing the baby in a cot or incubator, their eyes being covered, and a light with blue hue being provided.
    • Generally, the bilirubin count is taken every 4-6 hours and the baby is subjected to Phototherapy for a couple of days. If the bilirubin count does not fall, intensified phototherapy may be required.
    • During Phototherapy, the baby may not be picked up from the cot/incubator and the baby’s temperature is monitored to ensure dehydration does not occur. Phototherapy is only stopped to allow breastfeeding and nappy changes.

    Postpartum Care for Mother

    After childbirth, your partner will need time to recover and your role as a support system continues. The first few hours after delivery are a whirlwind of emotions and medical assessments of the mother and the baby. Ensure your partner has everything she needs to recover comfortably, and be there to assist with newborn care.

    Mom and newborn

    Your Role

    • Be your partner’s emotional rock, providing love and encouragement.
    • Understand that she might experience a wide range of emotions.
    • Share your own emotions and experiences, fostering a deeper connection.
    • Celebrate the birth of your baby and bond as a new family.
    • Be attentive to your partner’s physical and emotional needs.
    • Encourage rest and bonding time with your new family.

    Lactation Support and Feeding

    Lactation support is crucial for new moms and newborns. In the hours following childbirth, your partner will be encouraged to initiate breastfeeding or formula feeding, depending on her preference and circumstances. Generally, a lactation consultant will visit you in the room to provide guidance on breastfeeding techniques.

    First Feeding

    The first feed after childbirth stimulates your partner’s body to produce colostrum and begin lactating to feed your baby. Remember, your baby’s stomach is very small at this point so they will feed very little.

    Your Role

    • Be your partner’s emotional rock, providing love and encouragement.
    • Understand that she might not lactate immediately and support her.
    • Be attentive to your partner’s physical and emotional needs.

    Kangaroo Care

    Kangaroo care or skin to skin contact is highly encouraged to promote breastfeeding and foster bonding between the parents and the baby.

    Dad Newborn bonding Skin to Skin contact

    Benefits of Kangaroo Care

    • It decreases stress in the newborn and the parents.
    • It allows you to touch, see, smell and hear the baby.
    • It has been proven to stabilise the baby’s body temperature, heartbeat, breathing and blood oxygen levels.
    • It helps with strengthening the baby’s digestion and immune systems.
    • Kangaroo care / skin to skin contact is not restricted to moms alone, and dads are encouraged to do this!

    Diaper Changes, First Bath, Swaddling

    • Your newborn will poop frequently and you will regularly need to change nappies. If you’ve never changed a diaper, the medical staff at the hospital will show you how it’s done. You’ll get the hang of it soon enough as they go through diapers like nobody’s business!
    • The medical personnel at the hospital will also show you how to bathe the baby.
    • Finally, they will teach you how to swaddle and burp the baby so you are prepared to take your newborn home and hit the ground running.
    Newborn first bath DadProved

    Newborn Vaccinations

    In India, one dose of BCG, Hepatitis B, and OPV (Polio vaccine) are administered at birth. Make sure to collect your baby’s vaccination sheet before you head home. This sheet will contain details on their birth weight and height along with the vaccinations administered. This sheet will be used to keep track of your baby’s growth and vaccination schedule.

    Newborn Vaccination DadProved

    Heading Home after Delivery

    When your partner and your baby are discharged from the hospital, it’s time to head home and start a wonderful life as a family.

    Your Role

    • It’s okay to feel overwhelmed, and scared for your little one. It’s okay to wonder how wild it is that you go home now and there’s a baby going with you. It happens to everybody!
    • Fill the relevant forms to register the birth of your newborn. You will likely need to head to the hospital at a later date to collect your child’s birth certificate.
    • Collect all relevant details from the hospital, including copies of the bill and the vaccination records!
    • Make sure your newborn is safely tucked in a car seat as you head home. Read our Guide on Types of Car Seats to know which one to pick.
    • Understand that your partner is in recovery, and that postpartum is a heady phase of change for her. Your support and understanding here is vital.

    Conclusion

    The days following childbirth are a whirlwind of emotions, tests, and adjustments as you welcome your newborn into the world. Understanding what happens post delivery will help with a smooth transition out of the hospital and into parenthood.

    We hope this Article on What happens After Delivery has proved useful to you in this regard. Be prepared, stay informed, and enjoy every moment as you embark on this incredible journey with your newborn!

    Best of Luck!! You’ve Got this!

  • Dad’s Role in Labour and Delivery

    Dad’s Role in Labour and Delivery

    Childbirth can be a long affair, and is definitely a messy one. If you’re lucky, however, you’ll have the opportunity to be part of this amazing process that will become a core memory for you, and be a cornerstone in your relationship with your partner. This Article has been split into Dad Role in Preparing for Labour and Dad Role in Labour and Delivery.

    Dad Role in Preparing for Labour

    This Dad Guide to Labour and Delivery, written by a dad who helped deliver his first child, is all you need to know to prepare for the massive day where you’ll meet your baby. Let’s dive into some essential tips and tricks to make this day as smooth as possible.

    Pack the Hospital Maternity Bags, yes, even yours

    Yes, your partner has a bag, but you need one too. Ensure you’re well-equipped for the big day. Include essential items like comfortable clothes, toiletries, snacks, and chargers for your gadgets. Don’t forget some entertainment to keep you occupied during downtime, though you may have none. 

    Even better, communicate with your partner and make sure her bag is packed well in advance and with all things you’ll need.

    What to Remember

    • Have your ID and hospital paperwork ready, including the hospital delivery payment details, insurance details, and her medical file / history.
    • Ensure that the medical file contains a recent report indicating the blood type of the mother.
    • Pack snacks and drinks that you both enjoy, as labour can be lengthy. 
    • Bring chargers and extra power banks for your devices.
    • Bring a hot water bag to help with contractions and during the labour.
    • Ensure you have change of clothes for 2-3 days for both of you.
    • Carry a bluetooth speaker to play music preferred by the mum – this may be hymns, instrumental, meditative, or any other kind that works for her.
    • Bring essential oils or calming scents that your partner enjoys.
    • Make sure you have a sipper bottle to keep her hydrated – during labour and after delivery, your partner is likely going to be too tired to drink from a bottle and a sipper helps tremendously. 
    • Pack a piece of clothing to receive your baby in – make sure it’s been washed a few times and is soft to touch. You’ll want to save this for later!

    Check out our Hospital Maternity Bag Checklist for more information on things to pack for the Maternity bag for labour.

    Plan Your Route to the Hospital

    Don’t rely solely on Maps when the contractions kick in. Know the route to the hospital like the back of your hand. Consider traffic conditions, alternate routes, and estimated travel time. Make sure your vehicle is in good working condition and always has a full tank of fuel as the due date approaches. It doesn’t hurt to make sure your tyres are inflated so you don’t risk a flat.

    How to Prepare

    • Take test drives to the hospital to familiarize yourself with the route and typical traffic conditions.
    • Have a backup plan in case of unexpected roadblocks or traffic.
    • Keep your partner comfortable during the ride with cushions, blankets, and soft music. This will mean making sure these items are in the car, ready to go.
    • Keep the vehicle in good condition, including a full tank of fuel and adequately inflated tyres.
    • Make sure you buy and install a good car seat in your car to bring the baby home. If you’re confused about car seats, have a look at types of car seats in India, and car seat regulations.
    Filling air

    Make Plan for Pets

    Don’t leave things to chance. Make sure you have a plan in place for your pets. This may include a friend coming in to pet-sit, someone taking your dogs to boarding, or anything else you can think of. If you are having some pet-sit, make sure you’ve conducted a dry run of pet-sitting earlier. Make sure they are aware of where all important things are, how stuff works in your house, how to get into your house, etc. Most importantly, make sure it is someone your pets have met before, like, and trust. It is a great idea to have a pet-sitter come and pet-sit for you when you go on a baby-moon!

    If you’re going with a boarding facility, reach out to them in advance so there are no last minute complications. Make sure your friend or family member is comfortable getting your pets into their car. Make sure your pets are comfortable getting into a different car than they are used to. Trial runs all the way!

    Pregnant couple with pets

    Have a Support Team Ready

    It’s not just you and your partner – you’ll need a support team. This might include family members or friends who can offer help, guidance, and a comforting presence. Discuss your plan with them and have a communication network in place. Make sure everyone is aware of the game plan as the due date approaches, and make sure to have backups in case someone is unexpectedly occupied.

    What to Do

    • Share your birth plan with your support team.
    • Make a list of phone numbers and contacts to keep everyone informed.
    • Ensure that your support team knows their role and expectations.
    • Make sure there’s a backup for people performing vital roles such as taking care of your pets, accompanying you to the hospital, running errands for you, etc.

    Stay Informed and Be Prepared

    Knowledge is your best friend in this situation. Attend prenatal classes, read books, and ask questions. Learn about the stages of labour, comfort measures, and how you can support your partner. Understanding what’s happening can help you both feel more at ease.

    How to Stay Informed

    • Attend prenatal classes together and actively participate.
    • Read books or articles about labour and delivery.
    • Discuss your birth plan and preferences with your partner.
    • Check out DadProved for our in-depth articles about what to expect during Labour, including the later portion of this Labour and Delivery Dad Guide.

    Comfort Measures in Labour

    Comfort is key during labour. Discuss pain management techniques with your partner and be prepared to help her stay comfortable. Bring soothing music, essential oils, or calming scents that your partner enjoys. Brush up on massages, and breathing exercises, and be ready to offer a reassuring hand, your support matters.

    What to Remember

    • Practice massage techniques that can relieve tension and discomfort.
    • Pack your partner’s favourite calming scents or essential oils.
    • Create a playlist of her preferred music or soothing sounds.
    • Be attentive to her needs and preferences.
    • Offer words of encouragement and physical support.

    Discuss the Birth Plan 

    Before the big day arrives, it’s crucial to understand your partner’s birth plan. This plan outlines her preferences for labour, delivery, and postpartum care. Sit down with her to discuss the plan and ask any questions you may have

    How to Prepare

    • Review the birth plan together and make sure you’re on the same page.
    • Ask questions if you’re unsure about any procedures or decisions.
    • Discuss your partner’s preferences for pain management and interventions, between yourselves, with your doctor, and with the nursing staff at the hospital you have chosen. 
    • Do note pain management and interventions may vary – so make sure you’re all on the same page, including the medical team.
    • Keep a copy of the birth plan handy to share with the medical team.
    A pregnant woman discussing with her doctor

    Be There and Stay Calm

    Above all, be there for your partner and stay calm. Your presence and emotional support are incredibly valuable. Remember that while you may feel nervous, you are both in capable hands, and your baby’s arrival will be a beautiful and life-changing experience.

    Your Role

    • Offer words of encouragement and remind her of your love.
    • Stay calm and composed to reassure your partner.
    • Be ready to adapt to any unexpected changes in the birth plan.

    Dad Role in Labour and Delivery

    Now that you’ve prepped for Labour, let’s look at what happens on the day your child is born! While every labour experience is unique, understanding the basics can help you feel more prepared and confident.

    pregnant woman in labor leans on her partner

    The 4 Phases of Labour and Dad’s role

    Childbirth typically unfolds in three main stages and one final stage. Knowig these stages can give you a better grasp of the process and help you support your partner effectively.

    First Stage of Labour: Contractions and Dilation

    This is where it all begins. Contractions, which might feel like gas pains, bad menstrual cramps, or back discomfort at first, are the real deal. They help the cervix dilate and efface (thin out). This stage has three phases:

    • Early Labour (Latent Phase): Contractions start, are usually mild, are irregular (occurring every 5 to 20 minutes) and can last several hours. Please note that your partner’s water may or may not break when the contractions start. The cervix typically dilates to 4 centimetres during Early Labour. Make sure your partner is well hydrated. Taking a bath may make your partner feel a bit better.
    Nonstress Test
    • Active Labour: Contractions become stronger and more frequent, lasting 45-60 seconds or more, occurring every 3-5 minutes. The cervix is usually 4 to 5 cms dilated at this stage. You should head to the hospital at this stage.
    • Transition Phase: The cervix is usually at 8 cms. This is often the most challenging phase, and may also be the shortest. Strong contractions occur every 2-3 minutes and may last 60-90 seconds. Your partner may feel rectal pressure, and the urge to push. As for pain management, while Analgesics will likely not be administered, epidural anaesthesia may be used. However, this depends on the medical team at your birthing centre.
    Things to Expect and Your Role
    • Time the contractions and support your partner’s breathing techniques.
    • Head to the hospital in the event your partner’s water breaks.
    • Consult with your doctor on when to head to the hospital if the water has not broken – They may suggest you time the contractions and only go to the hospital during Active Labour. 
    • Make sure to carry the packed hospital bags including all medical files and history.
    • When you reach the hospital, you will be asked to wait while your partner’s cervix is examined to check for dilation. Depending on the dilation and frequency of the contractions, you may be admitted and taken to your room immediately or asked to wait in designated areas.
    • Once you reach the hospital room, and after your partner has settled, unpack the bags to make sure your partner has everything she needs.
    • Setup the bluetooth speaker, dim the lights, play the music of choice, and use essential oils and scents. Don’t forget to inflate the yoga ball, it really helps!
    • Offer massages, help her find comfortable positions, and keep her hydrated.
    • Stay calm and reassure her that you’re there for her – Active Labour is difficult and your partner will be in pain – keep on reading to understand more about pain management options.
    Woman in Labour

    Labour Pain Management Options

    It’s essential to discuss this with your partner and be prepared for her preferences. Do note her preferences may change during active labour. Thus, it is vital you have spoken at length on this matter prior and are on the same page. We’ll start off with some natural pain management options that your partner can try.

    Natural Pain Management
    • Breathing Techniques: Encourage deep and rhythmic breathing to manage pain.
    • Movement: Swaying, walking, or changing positions can provide comfort. Utilise the yoga ball to help deal with the contractions.
    • Massage: Gentle massages can relieve muscle tension.
    • Visualization: Guiding your partner to visualize calming scenes can help distract from the pain.
    Pregnant woman in labour standing
    Medical Pain Management
    • Epidural: Administered by an anesthesiologist, it provides pain relief from the waist down. A needle and a catheter is inserted into the lower part of your partner’s spine. The catheter is left in to continue providing pain medication. It usually takes about 15 minutes for the epidural to take effect. However, there are limitations on when an epidural can be administered. For instance, medical personnel may not administer epidural if your partner’s cervix is fully or almost fully dilated.
    • Analgesics: Pain-relieving medications are delivered through an IV. Generally, this is the first type of medical pain relief offered to a woman in labour. When my partner was in labour with our first, this did nothing to help her.
    • Nitrous Oxide: Also known as “laughing gas,” it provides mild relief when inhaled. This is not very common in India and may not be an option generally used at the hospital you have chosen to have your baby. Do make sure to check with the medical staff in advance and plan accordingly.
    Your Role

    TAKE NOTES, DADS. THIS BIT’S IMPORTANT.

    • Discuss pain management options in advance and respect your partner’s choice, both before and during labour. While she may have chosen to not have an epidural, and attempt to have a vaginal delivery without medical pain relief, she is entitled to change her mind. It is your job to support her in her choice.
    • Advocate for her preferences with the medical team. It is not uncommon for medical personnel to dismiss significant pain during labour as “normal”. However, pain thresholds vary wildly, and if your partner insists on medical pan relief, TRUST YOUR PARTNER’S JUDGEMENT. BE FIRM WITH THE MEDICAL PERSONNEL WHO MAY ATTEMPT TO COAX YOUR PARTNER INTO A VAGINAL DELIVERY SANS MEDICAL PAIN RELIEF.
    • IT YOUR JOB TO ADVOCATE FOR YOUR PARTNER AND HER RIGHTS. YOUR PARTNER IS ALLOWED TO ASSERT HER RIGHT TO HAVE THE PAIN MANAGEMENT OPTION SHE PREFERS, AND THERE IS NO SHAME WHATSOEVER ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. BE POLITE, YET FIRM WITH MEDICAL PERSONNEL.
    Pregnant woman in labour room

    Second Stage of Labour: Pushing and Birth

    The second stage of labour is when your baby makes their grand entrance. It starts when the cervix is fully dilated and ends with your baby’s birth. This stage may last 15 minutes to several hours. Contractions are still involved, but now it’s time for pushing.

    Your Role
    • Support your partner in the pushing process. Be her cheerleader.
    • Encourage her and offer sips of water between pushes. Help her find the optimal position.
    • Stay calm and composed. Your reassuring presence can help your partner feel more at ease.
    • Remember that you’re part of a capable medical team.
    • Trust in the process and your partner’s strength.

    Things to Expect in a Vaginal Delivery

    In the event your partner is having a vaginal birth, be prepared for all the fluids that usually accompany this amazing moment. There will be amniotic fluid, blood, and there may even be some stool from the pushing your partner is doing. The first thing visible would be your baby’s head as they descend into the world!

    Your Role
    • Be ready to witness the miracle of childbirth, including all that it entails – fluids, blood, and possibly some stool. Do not be fazed.
    • In the event your partner has passed a bowel moment, clean it up and keep it to yourself.
    • When your baby comes along, generally, the first thing visible is the head. The medical personnel will then help the mother deliver the baby. 
    • Your baby will be covered in afterbirth and will generally be pale. Do not be alarmed.
    • Insist on being the one to cut the umbilical cord, if that is something you wish to do. You may have to clear this with the medical personnel earlier. If possible, make sure you do as it will become a core memory for you.
    • Watch in amazement as your baby takes their first breath on earth and passes urine – this one is an important step in determining the baby’s health.
    • Congratulate the mother, your’e both parents now!

    Third Stage of Labour: Delivery of the Placenta

    After your baby is born, the third stage involves delivering the placenta. It usually takes 5-30 minutes and is often less eventful than the previous stages. At this stage, you may be asked to leave the room, as the medical personnel evaluate your partner for tears. In case some time has elapsed from delivery, the doctors may have to scrape out the remnants of the placenta by hand. Be aware of the medical procedures involve

    Your Role
    • Support your partner as the medical team takes care of the placental delivery.
    Placenta

    Fourth Stage of Labour

    The fourth stage of labour is the first couple of hours after your partner delivers. If your partner had tears or an episiotomy (medical incision to expand the birth canal – this is done in the perineal area between the vaginal opening and rectum), these are stitched.

    Cesarean Section (C-Section)

    In some cases, a C-section may be necessary. It’s a surgical procedure where the baby is delivered through an incision in the abdominal wall and uterus. This can be planned (elective) or occur due to medical reasons during labor.

    Your Role

    • Stay informed about the C-section process and what to expect.
    • Provide reassurance and comfort to your partner before and after the procedure. This is a major procedure and the recovery period will be greater than with a vaginal delivery.
    • You are not likely to be allowed in the room when the procedure is happening.
    • Be prepared to bond with your baby and help with post-surgery care.
    Childbirth via C section - mother and child

    What happens after Delivery? What is the after birth care for mom and newborn?

    Check out our post on what happens after delivery. We cover postpartum care for the mother, the after delivery health checks and processes for the newborn, vaccination process, lactation and breastfeeding, etc. 

    Also check out our post on dad newborn bonding  to set that ball rolling!

    Conclusion

    Childbirth is a transformative experience for both you and your partner and will become core memories for the both of you. Understanding what happens during labor is essential to being an active and supportive dad, and this Dad Role in Labour and Delivery has all the information you will need for the big day. 

    No matter how the journey unfolds, remember that your presence, love, and support are the most significant gifts you can offer. Be ready to embrace the adventure of becoming a parent, and you’re sure to cherish this momentous day for the rest of your lives.

    All the best!

  • Hospital maternity Bag Checklist

    Hospital maternity Bag Checklist

    Congratulations!! You are almost at the end of your partner’s pregnancy and are now getting closer to the due date. This is the ideal time to pack the hospital bag, not just hers, but yours as well. Use our Hospital Maternity Bag Checklist to make sure you pack everything you’ll need for the big day.

    However, don’t leave it to the last minute! We advise having your hospital maternity bag packed and ready to go a minimum of four weeks in advance of the due date.

    The Hospital Maternity Bag Checklist

    Postpartum underwear

    Labour Bag for Mom

    1. Have your partner’s Aadhaar card, details of the hospital delivery package, payment details, insurance details, and your partner’s medical file / history.
    2. Ensure that the medical file contains a recent medical report indicating the blood type.
    3. Bring a hot water bag to help with contractions and during the labour.
    4. Ensure you have change of clothes for 2-3 days.
    5. Make sure to pack a pair of panties for the new mom that she is okay with being discarded. The first couple of panties worn right after the delivery are usually too blood soaked and are best thrown out.
    6. Ensure you have heavy flow pads. Your partner hasn’t menstruated for a while, and it is likely you won’t have these lying around at home. Better yet, pack disposable maternity panties / heavy period panties. No, hospitals won’t just give you these.
    7. Pack a yoga ball and inflater for use during the labour – sitting on one helps immensely during contractions.
    8. Carry knee pads – they help immensely kneeling on the floor / using the yoga ball during labour.
    9. Carry a bluetooth speaker to play music preferred by the mum to be. This may be hymns, instrumental, meditative, or any other kind that works for her.
    10. Make sure you have a sipper water bottle to keep her hydrated. During labour and after delivery, your partner is likely going to be too tired to drink from a normal bottle. A sipper helps tremendously.
    11. Carry a peri bottle / perineum cleaning bottle for your partner to wash the perineum postpartum.
    12. Make sure to carry gowns for the mother to wear in the hospital. They make the mother walk around the hospital especially after a vaginal birth. It really helps to have good comfortable clothing that is easy to put on and take off.
    13. Carry a pair of comfortable slippers for your partner to wear.
    14. Carry Nursing Pads and pack a couple of Nursing Bras.
    15. Carry a ‘Sitz Bath Tub‘ for your partner. A Sitz bath tub is filled with warm water and disinfectant and your partner is required to squat to soak stitches / vulva in it. While the hospital will usually provide a metal one (for easy disinfection), it is strongly recommended you carry a plastic one that sits in the western commode – this way your partner will not need to squat and can sit on the commode. You’ll find these online.
    Perineal care postpartum

    Labour Bag for Dad

    1. Pack a change of clothes for Dad for 2-3 days, including towels.
    2. Pack spare bedsheets and a thin blanket, if you can.
    3. Carry your Aadhaar and insurance details.
    4. Carry any medications you need.
    Breastmilk pump

    Hospital Bag for Baby

    1. Pack a piece of clothing to receive your baby in. Make sure it’s been washed a few times and is soft to touch. You’ll want to save this for later!
    2. Pack clothing for the baby to wear in the hospital and for the baby to go home in.
    3. Pack a diaper bag that includes diapers, wet wipes, poop bags, and puppy pads. Yes, the hospital will give you a few packages relating to babies, but these are not complimentary. You will be billed for them. Thus, we suggest you carry baby products that you prefer. This way, you have a choice instead of being billed for the ones provided at the hospital. Plus, you get to choose the quality you like.
    4. Make sure you have bought and installed the right car seat. Check out our post on types of car seats in India!
    Newborn diapers and wipes

    General Items

    1. Pack snacks and drinks that you both enjoy, as labour can be lengthy. Try to make sure the smell of the snacks is not off-putting.
    2. Bring chargers and power banks for your devices.
    3. Pack your standard toiletries bag.
    4. Pack a couple of spare towels.

    Conclusion

    We hope this Hospital Maternity Bag Checklist has been of help to you as you prepare for the big day. While some items are usually available at stores nearby, it’s best to buy them and prep the bag in advance.

    Do make sure to pack this bag at least a month in advance of the expected due date. Keep it in the car along with the car seat.

  • Baby led weaning and Infant led weaning

    Baby led weaning and Infant led weaning

    As a father, there’s something incredibly rewarding about being involved in every aspect of your child’s life, and that includes their first steps into the world of solids. Baby led weaning, BLW, infant led weaning, or infant weaning is a method that’s gaining popularity, and for good reason. It’s a wonderful way for you to bond with your little one while introducing them to the joys of food. This Dad Guide to Baby Led Weaning will help you understand the ins and outs and allow you to be a pro at infant led feeding.

    What is Baby Led Weaning, Anyway?

    Baby led weaning is all about letting your child take the lead in their journey to solid foods. Instead of purees and spoon-feeding, your baby explores and feeds themselves with finger-sized pieces of soft, cooked foods. It’s a more hands-on approach to weaning, and it empowers your child to make choices about what and how much they eat.

    Baby led weaning using fruit

    Why Baby Led Weaning Works for Dads

    You might wonder why baby led weaning is something to explore. Well, here’s the scoop: it’s not only about letting your baby explore food independently; it’s also about making your life as a dad easier. Let me share a few reasons why baby led weaning can be your new best friend.

    Less Hassle

    No need to spend hours in the kitchen making and pureeing baby food. You can simply share healthy portions of your own meals with your little one, with a few modifications.

    Shared Meals

    Baby-led weaning allows you to eat together as a family. It’s quality bonding time while enjoying delicious food.

    Independence

    Your child learns to self-feed, which fosters their independence and fine motor skills.

    No Spoon Feeding – Literally

    Say goodbye to those airplane spoon noises and chasing your baby around with a spoonful of khichdi or ragi.

    BLW with Indian Foods

    In India, we have a rich tradition of introducing our babies to solids. Khichdi, mashed bananas, Ragi, dosa, and soft idlis are already popular choices. Baby led weaning can fit perfectly into this tradition, with a few adaptations. You can offer your baby soft and nutritious Indian foods like small portions of steamed veggies that would go into that khichdi, or cut pieces of dosa with some non-spicy chutney / dal / sambar as they start infant weaning. The key is to ensure that the food is easy to grasp and chew, and is bite sized.

    When to Start Baby Led Weaning

    Typically, BLW can begin around 6 months of age, when your baby shows signs of developmental readiness, such as:

    • Sitting upright with good head control
    • Reaching and grabbing objects
    • Bringing objects to their mouth

    While 6 months is a general guideline, remember every baby develops at their own pace. Don’t rush the process and wait for your little one to show you they’re ready.

    How do you actually do BLW?

    Baby led weaning is easier than you think! Here’s a quick guide:

    Offer a variety of safe-to-eat foods:

    • Start with soft, easily chewable foods like steamed vegetables, ripe fruits, cooked pasta, small pieces of dosa, etc.
    • Avoid choking hazards like hard foods, nuts, whole grapes, etc.
    • Cut food into manageable sizes and shapes for your baby’s grasp.
    baby in high chair during baby led weaning

    Let your baby lead

    • Place the food on their tray or highchair.
    • Encourage them to explore the food and pick it up themselves.
    • Let them decide how much they want to eat and don’t force them to finish anything.

    Be patient

    • Baby Led Weaning can be messy! Be prepared for food splatters and stains.
    • It may take some time for your baby to get the hang of self-feeding.
    • Be patient, encouraging, and supportive throughout the process.

    Dad Role in Baby Led Weaning

    Now, let’s talk about how you, as a dad, can play a crucial role in this baby led weaning adventure. It’s not just about being a spectator; it’s about being an active participant in your child’s journey into the world of flavors.

    Meal Prep

    When it comes to baby led weaning, you’re the chef of the house. It’s time to whip up delicious and nutritious meals that are safe and suitable for your baby. Be sure to avoid salt, sugar, and any small, hard foods that could be choking hazards. Get creative with your recipes and enjoy the process.

    Mess Management

    Yes, there will be mess. In fact, there will be lots of it. But here’s the silver lining: the mess is a sign that your baby is learning, exploring, and enjoying their food. So, embrace the mess, keep those wet wipes handy, and remember that it’s all part of the experience.

    Family Time

    During baby led weaning, mealtime is family time. Sit down with your little one, enjoy your meal together, and lead by example. Show them how it’s done, and let them mimic your eating habits. This is a wonderful opportunity to bond and share the joy of food.

    dad baby led weaning

    Safety Supervisor

    Safety first, always. As a dad, your role includes ensuring that the eating environment is safe. Check that the high chair or booster seat is secure, remove any choking hazards, and keep a watchful eye on your baby during mealtime.

    Encouragement Guru

    Your words of encouragement mean the world to your child. Celebrate their small victories, cheer them on as they explore new flavors, and be patient when they’re having a tough day with their food. Your support is invaluable.

    Document the Journey

    Capture the baby led weaning journey with photos and videos. It’s a delightful way to look back on these memorable moments.

    Challenges of BLW

    While BLW has many benefits, it’s not without its challenges. Here are some things to be aware of:

    • Messy mealtimes: BLW is messy! Be prepared for food splatters, dropped food, and a sticky baby.
    • Gagging and choking: BLW involves a natural gag reflex, which helps babies learn to manage food in their mouths. However, it’s important to stay vigilant and never leave your baby unattended during mealtimes.
    • Nutrient intake: As your baby learns to self-feed, their intake may vary from meal to meal. Don’t worry, breastmilk or formula will still be their primary source of nutrition until they’re around 1 year old.
    • Social pressure: You may face criticism or judgment for choosing BLW. Trust your instincts and follow your baby’s cues.
    baby led weaning

    Conclusion: The Joy of Baby Led Weaning

    Remember, dads, BLW is a journey, not a race. Enjoy the process, support your baby’s lead, and watch them blossom into confident, adventurous eaters. With a little patience and encouragement, and this handy Dad Guide to Baby Led Weaning, you can set your little one on the path to a lifetime of healthy eating habits.

    Happy Weaning, Dads!

  • dad newborn infant bonding

    dad newborn infant bonding

    One of the most beautiful aspects of parenthood is the opportunity to bond with your newborn / infant. That magical connection doesn’t happen overnight, but with some tips and tricks, you can start building it right from the beginning. Use this Dad Guide to explore the art of bonding with your newborn.

    The Power of Skin-to-Skin Contact

    From the moment your baby is born, they are ready to connect with you. One of the most effective ways to create that bond is through skin-to-skin contact. This simple act of holding your baby close, with your skin touching theirs, is incredibly powerful.

    Dad infant bonding Skin to Skin contact

    How to Do It:

    • Hold your baby on your bare chest, allowing them to feel your warmth and heartbeat.
    • If it’s cold, use a soft blanket to cover both of you and keep your baby snug and comfortable.
    • Talk or sing to your baby softly to introduce them to your voice.

    Dad Infant Bonding by Feeding

    Feeding time is an excellent opportunity for bonding. Whether you’re bottle-feeding or supporting your partner with breastfeeding, this moment is when your baby connects with you over a meal.

    Dad infant bonding by feeding infant from a bottle.

    What to Remember:

    • If you’re using a bottle, maintain eye contact with your baby while feeding.
    • If your partner is breastfeeding, take the baby from her once the feeding is complete and hold them to you.
    • Offer soothing words or gentle strokes.
    • Make it a special moment, free from distractions.

    Dad Newborn Bonding over Diaper Changes

    Diaper changes may not sound like a bonding opportunity, but they’re perfect for one-on-one time with your baby. This is when you can engage in baby talk, make eye contact, and share smiles and giggles!

    Dad infant bonding during diaper change

    How to Make It Special:

    • Use this time to engage with your baby, even if it’s just for a few minutes.
    • Talk to your baby in a soothing and animated tone, describing to them the things you’re doing.
    • Keep diaper-changing supplies nearby to make the process efficient and comfortable.

    Dad Newborn Bonding with Sounds and Rhythms

    Babies find comfort in familiar sounds and rhythms, and your voice is one of their favorites. Dads, use your voice to soothe, entertain, and build that special bond.

    Dad Bonding with Newborn

    What to Do:

    • Sing lullabies or nursery rhymes to your baby.
    • Create a bedtime routine with a gentle lullaby and soothing words.
    • Make up stories and interesting scenarios and talk to them in an entertaining manner. Sometimes babies listen more carefully if you whisper to them!
    • Make funny sounds or mimic your baby’s coos and giggles to share a laugh.

    Dad Newborn Bonding with Massage and Bath Time

    A gentle baby massage is a wonderful way to relax your newborn and enhance your bond. It’s also an opportunity to learn more about your baby’s likes and dislikes in terms of touch and pressure.

    New dads, don’t let the grandparents have all the fun! Get your hands oily for some hands-on massage time! It is one of the most amazing moments of fatherhood and you cannot afford to miss it.

    Dad newborn bonding through massage

    Tips to Massage and Bathe:

    • Use baby-safe oil and warm it slightly in your hands.
    • Gently massage your baby’s arms, legs, back, tummy, and feet.
    • Pay attention to your baby’s cues; if they seem uncomfortable, adjust your technique.
    • Use a tub to lay the baby down for the bath, so they’re comfortable.
    • Ensure that the water isn’t too hot so the bath is enjoyable for them.

    What to Remember:

    • Talk to your baby and make playful sounds to encourage them to lift their head.
    • Be patient; tummy time might starts with short durations and gradually increases.

    Dad Infant bonding through Activities

    • Use sensory toys and books to read to your baby! Dads, this will allow you to spend beautiful moments with your baby and they will love exploring the sensory books and toys.
    • Narrate your daily activities to your baby, involving them in your world.
    • Use colorful toys or objects to capture your baby’s attention.
    Dad bonding with infant by reading to him

    Dad Infant Bonding through Travel!

    As your baby grows, do not stay home! Dads, take your baby exploring, on long drives, on evening walks, to the mall, and wherever else you can think of to help strengthen your bond! Exploring the world together is a great way for a father to bonding with an Infant.

    How to Explore:

    • Start with a stroller if your baby is too young or too small for a baby carrier.
    • Start small, with trips around your home or in the neighbourhood.
    • You may also try visiting malls for a dust free environment.
    • Once your baby is a little bigger, use baby carriers as they allow you immense flexibility.
    • Pack the baby’s diaper bags with everything you’ll need and you’re all set to go exploring and bonding!

    Conclusion

    Remember, dads, bonding with your newborn is a natural and beautiful process. Don’t be afraid to experiment and find what works best for you and your baby. The most important thing is to spend time together, be present, and enjoy the journey of fatherhood.

    Bonus tips for dads

    • Be patient and understanding. It takes time to develop a strong bond with your baby.
    • Don’t be afraid to ask for help. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, reach out to your partner, family, or friends for support.
    • Above all, have fun! Enjoy this special time with your little one. They grow up fast, so cherish every moment.

    Now go forth, dads, and bond with your amazing little humans! The world of fatherhood awaits you.

  • Best Places to Travel with an Infant

    Best Places to Travel with an Infant

    With a new baby in the family, you might be wondering how to plan travel and outings that are fun, safe, and enjoyable for everyone. Check out our Dad Guide on Best Places to Travel with a Newborn!

    Day Trips and Staycations for Infants

    When the thought of a vacation feels overwhelming with a newborn, day trips and staycations are the best way to dip your toes into travelling with a newborn or a baby. Staycations and day trips are not only practical but also incredibly fun and enriching for your family. By exploring your local surroundings, you’ll introduce your baby to new experiences, cultures, and environments.

    Exploring Day Trips

    Day trips are perfect for a quick escape without the hassle of an overnight stay. Look for places near your home that you haven’t explored, that would be fun for the whole family. Check out our tips and suggestions for day trips with your baby.

    Day Trip to Museums

    Visit local historical sites or museums to introduce your baby to different environments. It will be indoors, and likely in the middle of the city so you don’t have to go too far.

    Credit: Pexels Ambady Kolazhikkaran

    If you plan it during a weekday, there will be fewer people and it’ll be more fun for everybody. If you’re planning a weekend day trip, explore paid trips through museums and see how your baby behaves with more people around!

    Botanical Garden Day Trip

    Spend a day in a local botanical garden, exploring nature’s wonders. This will allow babies to spend more time in nature and would be a good break from the heat. Pack a picnic with baby-friendly foods like mashed fruits or boiled vegetables.

    Pro Tip: Find a shaded spot and introduce your baby to their first outdoor play session.

    Beach Visits

    If you live in coastal areas, you should take your baby to the local beach for some ocean views. Your baby would love to experience sand and water on their feet!

    Dad and infant at the beach

    Pro Tip: The sound of the ocean waves is pretty much the default noise in a white noise machine so a visit to the beach is often very soothing for the baby, especially in the evenings after sunset. Let your little ones fall asleep to the real thing!

    Shopping Malls

    Taking your baby to shopping malls can be both practical and enjoyable. It is hard to beat the practicality of a shopping mall when it comes to introduce the world to your baby.

    You are in a climate controlled environment, the distance isn’t too far, you are certain to have baby care rooms, and there will be a food court where you can sit and have a meal together!

    Auto Rides

    Infants love rides in the auto-rickshaw! Go ahead and rent one for an hour or so and let your infant enjoy your city in an auto!

    Metro Rides

    Try taking your infant on the metro to expose them to new sights and sounds. They are bound to love the climate controlled environment, especially if you took them somewhere in an auto first!

    Cultural Centres

    Try taking your infant to a cultural centre near you such as the Isha foundation, the Art of Living, a Dhamma centre, or anything else you can think of!

    The Joy of Staycations

    A staycation is a fantastic way to enjoy a break without leaving the comfort of your city. Find a beautiful farm property, a star hotel, or a spa resort in your city to break the monotony of being at home and observe how your baby behaves with changes in environment, changes in sleeping patterns, etc.

    Preparing for Staycations and Day Trips with Infants

    Preparation is key to a successful staycation or day trip.

    • Pack Smart: Ensure you have everything you need, from baby essentials to your own comfort items.
    • Safety First: Check the safety of the activities you plan to undertake, especially for your baby.
    • Create an Itinerary: Plan your day or staycation activities ahead of time.
    • Baby Naps: Plan your activities around your baby’s nap schedule.
    • Feeding Schedule: Ensure you have the essentials for feeding, whether you’re breastfeeding or bottle-feeding.
    • Comfort Items: Pack familiar comfort items like your baby’s favorite blanket or toy.
    • Essentials: Remember to pack essentials like baby wipes, diapers, and a change of clothes, and always prioritize your baby’s comfort and safety.

    Making Memories: Infant Travel Photos and Souvenirs

    Capture the moments and create lasting memories:

    • Family Photos: Take plenty of photos to remember your day or staycation.
    • Create a Keepsake: Collect a small souvenir or create a scrapbook to remember your adventure.
    • Share Stories: Share your day or staycation stories with your baby as they grow.

    Planning infant Travel and vacations

    Travelling with an infant may seem daunting, but with the right tips and a bit of preparation, it can be an enjoyable and memorable experience. Let’s dive into the world of infant travel.

    Choosing Your Destination: best places to travel with a newborn

    When planning your trip with a newborn, it’s essential to pick a destination that’s suitable for both you and your baby:

    Hill Stations

    India’s hill stations offer a pleasant climate and beautiful scenery, which can be perfect for your baby’s first trip. If you’re in Bangalore, consider visiting places like Wayanad, Kodagu, Ooty, or Yercuad.

    Beach Destinations

    Coastal areas can be a great choice as the beach provides a soothing and sensory experience for your baby.

    Consider flying to places like Bali that have large resorts and hotel chains where you are sure to find support to take care of your newborn.

    Baby-Friendly Resorts

    Look for resorts that cater to families and offer amenities like baby pools or attached private pools so you can introduce your baby to the pool and have loads of fun.

    Accommodation Essentials for Infant Travel

    When choosing accommodations, look for options that cater to families, and keep the following in mind:

    • Baby Cots: Ensure that the hotel provides a baby cot or crib for your baby’s comfort.
    • Amenities: Check if the accommodation offers baby-friendly amenities such as baby pools or babysitting services.
    • Kitchen support: Speak with the shortlisted hotels to understand the level of support you can expect from the kitchen in preparing fresh meals for your baby. Some places may not have a fully functional kitchen to help you through the day – avoid such places.
    • Medical Services: Check with the shortlisted hotels or online and check if there are medical services available nearby in case of unforeseen circumstances.
    • Don’t go off-grid: It is generally a bad idea to go completely off-grid or to such rural areas where you would have difficulty either availing medical services or purchasing any required baby products.

    Travel Essentials: Packing for Infant Travel

    Packing for travelling with your infant is crucial for a smooth trip. Here’s what you need to consider:

    • Diapers and Changing Supplies: Pack enough diapers, wipes, and changing mats for the journey.
    • Weather appropriate Baby Clothes: Don’t forget to pack comfortable and weather-appropriate clothing for your baby.
    • Feeding Necessities: Whether you’re breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, make sure you have all the essential supplies.
    • Baby Carrier: A baby carrier can be a lifesaver, allowing you to keep your baby close and explore hands-free.
    • Travel Stroller: A lightweight and compact stroller that easily fits in the boot of your car is ideal for travel.
    • Medical Kit: Bring a basic medical kit with baby-specific items, just in case. This may include medication for colic, fever, cough, as well as prescribed supplements such as for vitamin d. Ensure you pack mosquito repellant patches / sprays.

    Carrying and Feeding Your Baby

    Safety should always be a priority when traveling with a newborn:

    • Car Seats: Ensure you have a suitable car seat for your baby during car journeys.
    • Babywearing: A baby carrier can keep your baby secure and close while you explore.
    • Feeding Schedule: Stick to your baby’s feeding schedule to keep them comfortable and content.

    Dad Guide to taking an infant on a Roadtrip

    Infant on the hood of a car

    If you are taking an infant on a roadtrip , you can do a great deal to ensure your baby’s comfort. Here’s how to ensure they are relaxed and content during your journey:

    • Scheduled Rest Stops: Plan your journey with scheduled stops for diaper changes and feeding.
    • Entertainment: Bring along baby toys or mobiles to keep your little one engaged.
    • Car Seats: A car seat is your best friend when it comes to road trips with your baby. It allows them a place to settle and even have nap when necessary.
    • Adapt to the Baby’s Rhythm: Be flexible with your schedule and adjust it according to your baby’s needs.

    Dad Guide to Flights with Newborn

    Nowadays, traveling with a newborn by plane is generally inevitable. Here’s how you can make the most of the experience when you have to fly with a newborn:

    • Flight Timings: Check for flights that are in line with your baby’s wake windows or sleep windows.
    • Book Layovers for International Flights: For international travel, we suggest you book for flights with layovers instead of direct flights. Yes, the travel will be longer, but having a layover will help you to stretch your legs and hep your baby get some movement as well. We’ve found Changi Airport, Singapore, to be an amazing layover stop when flying internationally with our baby.
    • Travel Time: Keep in mind that a flight travel would involve travelling to and from the airport. Keep the travel time in mind and ensure you travel preferably during the day, keeping in mind your baby’s sleep schedules.
    • Get there early: Generally, airlines will allow priority checkin and boarding if you are travelling with an infant. That being said, try and get there early to get through security especially if you are carrying baby food.
    • Carry a Stroller: Airlines will allow strollers of approved dimensions in the cabin. This means you can use the stroller until boarding and as soon as you deplane. This is immensely helpful, especially if your baby is sleepy.
    • Lounges: If possible, try and use the lounge facility at the airport so you have some time to relax and let your baby relax before the flight.
    • Bassinets: If the flight is of a longer duration, make sure to book well in advance and ensure you have purchased seats with a bassinet. While you wouldn’t be able to place the baby in the bassinet during takeoff or landing, it is immensely helpful when you put the baby to bed. Plus, they are usually the front row seats, ensuring you have extra legroom for the same price.
    • Feed during takeoffs and landings: Make sure to feed your baby during takeoff and landing. The motion of swallowing helps ease the discomfort caused in their ears due to the air pressure.
    • Packing List: Ensure you have a dedicated bag with baby essentials for the train journey. This should definitely include toys that your baby is comfortable with as well as some new toys to pique their interest.
    • Baby Food: Airlines often allow you to purchase baby food, or bundle it with your infant seat booking.
    • Cabin Crew: We have generally had amazing interactions with the cabin crew when we’ve flown with our baby. It always helps to be kind to them – it will help make the experience better for everyone!

    For more information on traveling with infant on plane, traveling with a newborn by plane, airplane travel with infant, flying with an infant on lap, infant airplane seat, or air travel with infant, check out our Newborn And Infant Air Travel In India – FAQ’s. For an infant travel checklist, check out our post on Newborn Air Travel Checklist.

    Conclusion

    Travelling with a newborn can be an incredibly enriching experience for both you and your baby. With the right destination, essentials, safety measures, and a flexible attitude, you can create lasting memories while ensuring your baby’s comfort and well-being. So, go ahead and explore the stunning landscapes, delicious cuisines, and vibrant cultures that India has to offer with your little one. It’s an adventure that you’ll cherish for years to come.

  • Newborn and Infant Air Travel in India – FAQ’s

    Newborn and Infant Air Travel in India – FAQ’s

    Traveling with a newborn or infant by plane for the first time? DadProved answers the most frequently asked questions on flying with a newborn in India.

    Booking Tickets

    Do I have to buy an Infant Ticket or a separate ticket for a baby?

    If your child is below the age of 2 years, they are categorised as an Infant and will not need a separate ticket. Infants will be ‘tagged’ to an adult travelling with the infant.

    Do I have to pay extra for an Infant?

    Yes. Generally, additional fees will be payable for your infant, even though they will not have a separate seat and will be seated on your lap.

    Can I buy an extra seat for comfort?

    Yes, and we recommend you do!

    What should I keep in mind while booking the flight ticket?

    You should keep in mind the babies natural sleep schedule, and the duration it would take for you to travel door to door. We suggest the travel be in such a manner that the baby’s natural sleep schedule is not disturbed.

    What are bassinet seats?

    When you are travelling with an infant, airlines may offer bassinet seats – seats where a bassinet may be placed for your baby to rest for the duration of the flight. However, the baby must be in your arms during takeoff, landings, and during turbulence.

    Does a bassinet seat have any other advantage?

    Bassinet seats generally have a better legroom compared to the other seats.

    How do I choose a bassinet seat?

    In the event a bassinet seat is available on the airline and the aircraft that you are flying, you would be allowed to select a bassinet seat at the time of booking. However, please note we have not come across a bassinet on domestic flights, even after being shown / booking bassinet seats.

    How do I avail a bassinet on board?

    If you have selected a bassinet seat and bassinets are available on board, you can request the cabin crew to provide you with the bassinet.

    Should I avoid ATR flights with an Infant?

    Generally an ATR flight is louder and experiences greater disturbance during take off and landings. While sometimes an ATR flight is unavoidable, if there are non Airbus / Boeing flights available, we suggest booking those.

    I am flying internationally. Should I book a direct flight or one with layover?

    In our experience travelling with infants, direct flights are harder than ones with layovers. Yes, the duration is longer, but a layover allows you and your baby to stretch your legs.

     

    Airport

    Will my infant need a separate ID?

    Yes. We recommend applying for a government issued ID using the baby’s birth certificate at the earliest. This may be a passport or an Aadhaar. We recommend passport because then you can fly abroad with them! We took our infant abroad when they were 9 months old.

    Can I wear my baby at the airport in a baby carrier?

    Yes, but you would need to take your baby out and remove the baby carrier for security clearance.

    Do I get priority at security clearance / immigration?

    This would depend on the airport you are at – we have seen priority lanes for families at security as well as immigration at international airports. We have seen priority security clearance at domestic airports as well.

    Do I get priority boarding travelling with an infant?

    Yes. If you are travelling with an infant, airlines generally provide you priority boarding. We urge you to take advantage of this so you and your infant have more time to get settled in your seat.

    I am a dad travelling with my baby. Is there something that helps me?

    Lookout for family toilets that will allow you to use the restroom whilst your baby is safe – they generally have a baby protection attachment on the wall where your infant rests when you use washroom.

    Are family toilets available at every airport?

    We have noticed family toilets at Mumbai and Bengaluru airports in India, though they may be available at other airports as well. They are generally available at international airports abroad.

    Am I allowed to carry more than 100 ml fluids for baby food?

    In our experience, for domestic flights in India, security screening has been very accommodating of baby food, including breast milk, formula, and other fluids and purees, including in excess of generally prescribed limits for liquids.

    Can I carry a stroller?

    We actually recommend that you carry a baby stroller for use at the airport.

    Does my stroller count towards luggage or cabin baggage?

    No. The baby stroller is not counted towards your allowed cabin weight, nor does it count as your cabin baggage.

    Does my baby’s diaper bag count as an additional baggage?

    No, your baby’s diaper bag does not count as additional cabin baggage.

    Can I take this stroller on board the flight?

    This would depend on the size of your stroller and whether it would fit in the overhead compartments. Generally you would be requested to hand the stroller over to ground staff at at the time of boarding which would then be made available to you once you arrive at your destination. If your stroller is indeed flight compatible you may take it on board although this is generally a hassle.

    Flight

    Should I buy something for the flight?

    We have found it helpful to have new toys so that the infants interest is maintained for the duration of the flight.

    What are Infant lap belts?

    Infant lap belt is a closed loop belt that is placed around your baby your lap belt is hooked through it.

    Are Infant lap belts provided in India?

    This would depend on the airline that you are flying.

    Will I be provided infant food on board?

    This would again depend on the airline that you are flying and if it is domestic leg of an international flight or a purely domestic flight. When we flew with Singapore Airlines we could reserve baby food which was offered by the cabin crew onboard. However we have not seen this happen on purely domestic flights.

    Can my Infant be breastfed on the plane?

    Yes.

    Can I change diapers on the plane?

    Yes, but we really do not reccommend you do, unless of course your baby poops on the flight, in which case you are in for a slightly difficult diaper change. There is usually only one bathroom equipped with a changing station which is basically a slab that folds down and rests on top of the toilet bowl. It is small, cold, hard, and may be kinda angled due to the flight trajectory. While you can definitely change a diaper there, we strongly recommend changing diapers at the Airport.

    Conclusion

    Flying with an infant, especially the first time, can be challenging and frightening. We hope this guide has helped allay your fears and you are ready for your infant to take to the skies!

  • Newborn Air Travel Checklist

    Newborn Air Travel Checklist

    The complete DadProved Dad Guide to newborn travel checklist, including tips for air travel with infant.

    Infant Travel Checklist

    Packing appropriately for your flight with a newborn is crucial to ensuring a smooth trip. Here’s what you need to consider:

    • Diapers and Changing Supplies: Pack enough diapers, wipes, and changing mats for the journey. Make sure to include puppy pads, poop bags, as well as a portable diaper changing mat – trust us, the diaper changing station on the standard B737-800 flights are and you will sorely miss one should you forget to pack this.
    • Weather appropriate Baby Clothes: Don’t forget to pack comfortable and weather-appropriate clothing for your baby.
    • New Toys: Pack some new toys that your infant has not seen before so their interest is maintained in the new toy.
    • Feeding Necessities: Whether you’re breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, make sure you have all the essential supplies, including water for babies above 6 months of age. They also get thirsty on flights.
    • Baby Carrier: A baby carrier can be a lifesaver, allowing you to keep your baby close and explore airports hands-free.
    • Travel Stroller: A lightweight and compact stroller is a lifesaver when it comes to traveling with a newborn by plane, especially if there are layovers. Even otherwise, you are allowed to carry the stroller till the boarding gate, or even in the flight if your’d like (and it fits the prescribed size). If your baby insists on being in your arms instead, the newborn travel system / travel stroller becomes a luggage carrier for the diaper bag and other handbags!
    • Medical Kit: Bring a basic medical kit with baby-specific items, just in case. This may include medication for colic, fever, cough, as well as prescribed supplements.

    Tips for Air Travel With Infant

    Nowadays, traveling with a newborn by plane is generally inevitable. Here’s how you can make the most of the experience when you have to fly with a newborn:

    • Flight Timings: Check for flights that are in line with your baby’s wake windows or sleep windows.
    • Book Layovers for International Flights: For international travel, we suggest you book for flights with layovers instead of direct flights. Yes, the travel will be longer, but having a layover will help you to stretch your legs and hep your baby get some movement as well. We’ve found Changi Airport, Singapore, to be an amazing layover stop when flying internationally with our baby.
    • Travel Time: Keep in mind that a flight travel would involve travelling to and from the airport. Keep the travel time in mind and ensure you travel preferably during the day, keeping in mind your baby’s sleep schedules.
    • Get there early: Generally, airlines will allow priority checkin and boarding if you are travelling with an infant. That being said, try and get there early to get through security especially if you are carrying baby food.
    • Carry a Stroller: Airlines will allow strollers of approved dimensions in the cabin. This means you can use the stroller until boarding and as soon as you deplane. This is immensely helpful, especially if your baby is sleepy.
    • Lounges: If possible, try and use the lounge facility at the airport so you have some time to relax and let your baby relax before the flight.
    • Family Toilets: Look out for Family Toilets to change your baby instead of the usual baby care rooms or the changing stations in the gender segregated bathrooms. Family Toilets are a boon – allowing the entire family to use the space at the same time so you may use the washroom while your partner changes your baby’s diaper or vice versa. Even if you are travelling alone, we strongly recommend Family Toilets because they have the wall mounted infant protection system so your baby stays in one place! We have seen Family Toilets in Mumbai and Bengaluru (T2) Airports in India.
    • Bassinets: If the flight is of a longer duration, make sure to book well in advance and ensure you have purchased seats with a bassinet. While you wouldn’t be able to place the baby in the bassinet during takeoff or landing, it is immensely helpful when you put the baby to bed. Plus, they are usually the front row seats, ensuring you have extra legroom for the same price.
    • Feed during takeoffs and landings: IF they are awake, try to feed your baby during takeoff and landing. The motion of swallowing / chewing helps ease the discomfort caused in their ears due to the air pressure.
    • Packing List: Ensure you have a dedicated bag with baby essentials for the train journey. This should definitely include toys that your baby is comfortable with as well as some new toys to pique their interest.
    • Baby Food: Airlines often allow you to purchase baby food, or bundle it with your infant seat booking.
    • Be Kind to the Cabin Crew: We have generally had amazing interactions with the cabin crew when we’ve flown with our baby. It always helps to be kind to them – it will help make the experience better for everyone!

    Conclusion

    Airplane travel with a newborn can be an incredibly enriching experience for both you and your baby. With the right planning, essentials, and a flexible attitude, you can create lasting memories while ensuring your baby’s comfort and well-being. So, go ahead and explore the stunning landscapes, delicious cuisines, and vibrant cultures that the world has to offer with your little one.

    If you still have questions, check out our FAQ’s on Newborn Air Travel in India.

  • DIY Childproofing & Babyproofing

    DIY Childproofing & Babyproofing

    Our homes and apartments often have unique challenges, such as open balconies, furnitures with sharp edges, floor lamps and diyas, and of course, easily accessible kitchens. Keeping our little ones safe while they navigate crawling and growing up is essential, can can often be stressful too! Do read our post on Childproofing in India to discover a babyproofing checklist to identify areas to be babyproofed at home

    Childproofing DIY Tips and Tricks

    Childproofing doesn’t have to be a wallet-draining experience. Here are some creative ways to get started without breaking the bank:

    DIY Cabinet Latches and Locks

    Indian homes often have cabinets filled with spices, dishes, and whatnot. Use shoelaces or rubber bands to create DIY cabinet locks, ensuring your toddler can’t unleash chaos in the kitchen. If rubber bands are not feasible, childproofing can be as simple as a wooden spoon prevening the door from being opened!

    A wooden spoon holding cabinets shut

    Curtain Scrunchies / Hair Clips

    Babies love pulling on curtains! Use a scrunchie or hair clips to make long curtains inaccessible to tiny hands.

    Hair clip holding up a curtain

    DIY Outlet Covers

    Standard socket covers can be pricey. Use adhesive tape, brown tape, cellophane tape, or band-aids to cover sockets – simple, effective, and very budget-friendly.

    Brown tape

    DIY Corner Protectors / DIY Childproofing

    For sharp edges, like coffee tables or countertops, instead of corner protectors, use double sided tapes combined with cut-up pieces of yoga mats!

    Yoga Mat, Scissors and Tape for childproofing DIY

    Playpen Versatility

    A playpen isn’t just for play; it’s an excellent way to keep your child safe while you work or attend to household chores. Look out for baby cradles that convert into mobile playpens that you can take with you wherever you go.

    Playpen

    Balcony Nets

    Invest in inexpensive mesh nets / pigeon nets that can be tied around balcony railings. These keep your little one safe while they explore the great outdoors, your balcony.

    Balcony Nets

    Sliding Window Locks

    Sliding windows and balcony doors are now prevalent in India, and these can be a tempting playground for your child. Install sliding window locks to restrict their access without shelling out a fortune.

    Taking the Pre Loved Route

    India has a thriving second-hand market. You can find budget-friendly childproofing items like babygates for stairs through various online platforms.

    Hand-Me-Downs: Accepting hand-me-downs from friends or family is not only budget-friendly but also sustainable.

    Neighbourhood Forums: Explore local online forums such as through your Nobroker / MyGate apps for pre-loved childproofing items being sold by your neighbours.

    Stay True to Your Budget!

    Stay true to your budget, improvise, and create a safe haven for your little one without burning a hole in your pocket. After all, parenting is all about creativity, resourcefulness, and a whole lot of love!

  • Babyproofing & Childproofing a House

    Babyproofing & Childproofing a House

    Hi dads! Your little one is growing up, crawling all over, and now it’s time to make your home a safe haven. For most people, childproofing or babyproofing immediately means childproof gates for stairs but is that the extent of childproofing? What about all the other dangers that are ever present at home? How do you identify things to babyproof?

    We’ve put together a small list of the common things to be babyproofed so you may identify and address these at home.

    Childproofing the Kitchen

    It’s the heart of every Indian home, but it can be a hotbed of potential hazards for your little explorer. Here are some dangers you should address to ensure your kitchen is childproof:

    • Gas Stove and Vessels: The gas stove burners and vessels used for cooking can remian hot for a long time. It is recommended that you use the back burners and ensure pan handles face inwards.
    • Spices: From haldi, to pepper and red chillies, we use an array of spices and sharp utensils. Make sure they are completely out of reach.
    • Dishwasher: The dishwasher can be an enticing place for a curious child. Keep it locked when not in use.
    • Cabinet Locks: Install sturdy locks on cabinets and drawers, especially those containing cleaning supplies, medications, or sharp objects.
    • Appliance Safety: Keep appliances such as mixies and grinders, including wet grinders unplugged and out of reach.
    • Cord Control: Securely tuck away or tape down all cords and wires, especially from appliances like blenders and toasters.
    Image of a child in high chair in the kitchen

    Childproofing the Living Room

    As with most Indian homes, it’s likely your baby spends most of the wake window in the living room. Here are some things to consider babyproofing in the living room:

    • Open Outlets: Uncovered outlets are a shock risk. Invest in outlet covers, and keep an eye out for any damaged socket or electrical switch.
    • Furniture: Heavy furniture can tip over easily. Consider anchoring bookshelves, Almirahs, TV cabinets, Aquariums, and other large furniture to the wall.
    • Sharp Corners: Sharp-edged tables can be a hazard. Use corner protectors or choose round-edged furniture options.
    • Cords and Curtains: Long cords from curtains and blinds can pose a strangulation risk. Use cord winders or tie them up high.
    • Mats and Carpets: Children tend to play with mats and carpets on the floor, especially when they begin crawling. Make sure it is plastic free and does not pose a choking hazard.
    • Plants and Planters: Make sure the plants and planters are kept out of your baby’s reach – you do not want your baby to pull down the plant onto themselves, or damage the plant / planter by simply pulling them off your center tables / coffee tables.
    • Center Tables / Coffee Tables: Babies love holding on to the center tables / coffee tables, and because of their low height, all things kept on or underneath are easily reachable to the baby. Consider stowing that beautiful center piece to a corner for some time.
    • Pooja Corner / Pooja Mandir: If you have a pooja mandir or pooja shelf at home, you need to make sure it is not on the floor. The diyas / lamps, sambrani or dhoop, incense, and other items usually found in a pooja mandir are dangerous to babies, and you will need to childproof the pooja mandir.
    Image of a puja mandir to be babyproofed

    Childproofing the Balcony

    Childproofing a balcony is absolutely essential – most apartments have large balconies, and they can be both a joy and a potential hazard.

    • Sliding Doors: Balconies often have sliding doors. Install locks or childproof handles to restrict your child’s access.
    Infant standing on the ledge of a balcony
    • Balcony Nets: Use mesh or netting such as a pigeon net to create a barrier if the railings have wide gaps or can easily be climbed. Make sure they are secure and childproof.
    Balcony Nets

    Childproof Gate for Stairs

    If you have a multi-story home, the staircase is a prime area of concern.

    • Baby Gates: Install baby gates / childproof gates for stairs at both the top and bottom of the staircase. Ensure they are securely fastened.
    Childproof gate for stairs
    • Carpet Your Steps: Carpeting the stairs can add traction, reducing the risk of slips and falls.
    • Handrail: Ensure the handrail is secure and at a height suitable for your child to hold onto.

    Childproofing the Bathroom

    The bathroom can be a treasure trove of hidden dangers for your baby.

    • Slippery Surfaces: Bathroom floors can be slippery. Use non-slip mats and stick-on treads to prevent falls.
    • Toilet Seat Lock: Keep the toilet lid down to avoid any water hazards, and consider a toilet lock to prevent accidents.
    • Medicine Cabinets: Lock up the medicine cabinet and keep all medicines out of your child’s reach.
    • Cleaning Supplies: Make sure all the cleaning supplies – the toilet cleaners, those brushes, the floor cleaners, etc are all potential hazards for your baby. Make sure they are completely out of reach.
    • Buckets: Make sure buckets, mugs, and containers of water are emptied immediately. If you are storing water for any reason, make sure the bathroom is inaccessible to your baby.

    Childproofing the Nursery

    Finally, let’s explore the bedroom, where your child spends many peaceful hours.

    Dad setting up the baby crib
    • Keep Small Objects Out of Reach: Get down on your hands and knees and scan the floor for anything your baby could choke on, like coins, beads, or small toys.
    • Button batteries: These tiny, powerful batteries can be fatal if swallowed. Keep them out of reach and dispose of them safely.
    • Cribs and Beds: Ensure cribs and beds are safe, can support the baby standing up using them, and avoid using heavy blankets or pillows.

    Stay Vigilant

    Identifying common hazards can be a bit like a treasure hunt, but the stakes are higher. As your baby grows and becomes mobile, you’ll need to re-evaluate potential dangers and adjust accordingly. By following these tips and staying vigilant, you can create a safe and loving environment for your little explorer to thrive.

    Pro TipEmergency Contacts: Keep a list of emergency contacts, including your pediatrician, poison control, and local hospitals.